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Deconstructing is a multilayer process. It’s not just dismantling the teachings and abuses. It’s also learning how to operate in the world and find things that bring you joy. Often we were told that anything that interested us or was a talent had to be used to bring joy to…

I went to an event with my library and had fun painting on my own for the very first time. I have some learning to do, but I’ll get better. Deconstructing is a multilayer process. It’s not just dismantling the teachings and abuses. It’s also learning how to operate in…

Move over Debi Pearl, Tilly Dillihay is taking your place as the trad wife teacher. A new generation of “older women teaching the younger women” has arrived. Jessa Duggar is promoting Tilly Dillahay’s new wife school. I give you the TLDR on my lived experience as a trad wife. Deconstruction…

Anna Duggar has recently joined TikTok and the internet is freaking out that she is still wearing her ring. I explain from an IBLP cult survivors perspective what may be going on. I also bring up a few things she may be dealing with that you may not have considered.…

I have heard many arguments against Knitting Cult Lady and these are some of the most common ones. I wanted to take a moment and break these down and give my perspective as a cult survivor and veteran. Many of the accusations are coming from civilians with little knowledge of…